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You have a score of 70-96
You have moderate levels of codependence, it is tendency but it isn’t all consuming of your life. Working through the codependence class will help you to become healthier. It will improve your sense of awareness and equip you to interact with yourself, God, and others by gaining access to the nourishment of the Holy Spirit.
You have a score of 96-108
You have a codependence root in your life that is changing how you can function on a daily basis. By these learned skills, you have learned how to self protect and to overcome the hurt and the imbalances around you. This is a divine season in your life to find hope and healing. It isn’t something to be ashamed of! In fact you are a warrior in a sense! You have been fighting hard and dealing with some tough and challenging situations. The good news is there is a better way. God has given you power that comes from heaven to find your identity, to build boundaries and to remove the harm of other people. He’s preparing a way for you to live a life that has peace at its core.
You have a score of 108 or above
Your codependence has harmed you profoundly. You have more than likely faced extreme battles in life. There is wounding that has caused deep shells of protection to try to keep your world safe. You have dealt with unstable and unhealthy people. Your life has been a never-ending battle. Those wounds may have been trauma or extreme difficulties in life. Perhaps you grew up in this environment and it has become a learned way of life. Whatever the case, the season of healing is upon you. You can lay your weapons down. The love of Jesus and the power He comes to offer to you isn’t harsh. It’s gentle. His goal is to begin to remove your burdens and place His love and His identity over your life. He wants to remove shame and replace it with His favor, His grace. Today is a great day to begin.
Do you care for the needs of others so much that you neglect your own?
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Do you have a difficult feeling “normal” and tend to feel that something is wrong with you?
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Do you depend on other people to meet your emotional needs, even though they are oftentimes unavailable?
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Do you tolerate mistreatment and abuse from people, but justify their behavior?
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Do you avoid conflict with other people to the point that you can’t speak what you truly feel or ask for what you need?
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Do you cover up for an irresponsible person in your life, (probably someone under the influence of an addiction) by lying or “filling in the gap?”
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Do you do things for other people that they should be doing for themselves? Do you sacrifice your own needs or responsibilities in the process?
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Do you tolerate things only for so long before you experience outbursts of anger or rage?
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Do you try to protect a person from emotional pain or consequences, especially if that person is emotionally unstable or under the influence of drugs or alcohol?
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Do you directly or indirectly attempt to fix, manage or control another person’s problems, even if you mean it in a loving way?
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Do all your attempts to “change” or “fix” this “broken” person in your life leave you frustrated, angry and confused?
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Do you live in constant crisis? Do you feel empty, bored or unimportant when you’re not helping someone or responding to a crisis situation?
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Do you try to please people in your life by going out of your way to be helpful, thoughtful or caring, and then find yourself angry or discouraged if they don’t respond the way you’d like?
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Do you tend to migrate towards people that might need your help?
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Do you have a difficult time asking or receiving help from others?
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Do you have a difficult time asking or receiving help from others?
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Do you have a difficult time saying “no?”
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Do you worry about other people’s feelings so much that their problems have a direct affect about how you feel?
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Do you lose your own interests and identity in close relationships or try to change yourself to “fit in”?
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Do you compromise your personal convictions and morals to please the people in your life?
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Are you afraid of being alone and feel the need to always be around a friend or significant other?
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Do you isolate yourself out of fear of close relationships?
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Do you appear in control, healthy and happy to the outside world, while inwardly you are hurting, unhappy and out of control?
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Do you have a strong need to make everything “perfect” in your life? Rather than balanced, is everything in extremes (i.e. – all right or all wrong)?
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